MT comment: I was sorry to hear from Dana that her father passed away. Two months ago her mother left her. She had been waiting for three years to bring her parents to her side under Finland’s strict family reunification law, which was tightened in 2011. Finland shows its human face by accepting refugees but then it reveals a darker side, where minors and relatives are forced to live separated indefinitely from their loved ones.
In Dana’s case, it’s over for her to reunite with her parents in Finland.
We wish our heartfelt condolences to her and her family.
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By Dana

I’m full of tears
But
I can believe it, i can, even if i am able to… i am strong that’s why i can
Everything can happen in a nightmare…Finland is a nightmare.
It is a nightmare …but it can’t be real …so i do not need to be sad… soon, yes, soon, someone will call me and i will wake up from this nightmare with my family.
My father, my Baba, is now gone, too.. he could not wait even two months after my mother passed away to join her,
Oh Baba u were so sad u couldn’t wait even 2 months… do u know that u made the Finnish law so happy??? Oh yes, u made them all happy… they all hate me, Baba, ur case is still in court… Can u believe it, Baba?????
Sigh.
My Baba Love:
Today is 25.7.2013 and it is the 21st century… but Finland doesn’t know in which century its nightmare is.
Who knows that?
Last night he left this life in the hands of my young brother…oh sooooo sad…my Mama left 28.5.2013, and now my Dad, on 24.7.2013
Am i in shock??? I still don’t know… now i am standing up for my rights that’s the only thing that i’m aware of.
He met my Mama last night, what a pleasure, oh sure… i’d love to see them.
I’m going through difficult times, a hard situation.
My family reunification case is gathering dust in a Finnish immigration court… so is this how mean the law is?
Who can exactly explain what is the aim of Finnish law, not to me but to her/him?
My body is in Helsinki and my spirit is in Iran… my brother is alone there…
Oh darling cute brother how much i miss u… be strong, be strong.
I should be there with u now… but i cant even move at this moment from my chair.
I am certain of my nightmare, how is it possible that i have so many problems, suffering such hard times??? Who am i? How can I carry this heavy load? What am I made of??? Am i flesh and bones??? I can’t believe it… i need to wake up from this nightmare and suffering.
I so much need to see my Dad again…. i need him..
Why isn’t there anyone in Finland who takes responsibility for what happened to my parents and my tragedy?
Why doesn’t anyone answer me???
I told you all this because my life is a nightmare.
Finland is a nightmare.
Finland…Nightland
Hey, can somebody tell me in what century i’m living in in Finland?